"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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slightoverbite

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hi! i'm slightoverbite.

I'm a little nervous bc this is my first posting. i've seen some people be nasty on the site and frankly i'm kind of worried about the responses.

but to my point, i'm 16, and i have not to this date been like all over a girl. I mean, sometimes i see a hott chick and say"hey, that chick is hott", but i dunno.

basically, i'm just asking if anyone else out there is going through with the same thing.:confused:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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playa99

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lol some friendly advice, read the HS and DJ bible which are found at the top at the link whichs HS bible lol, it is the biggest step you will ever make in meeting girls
 

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slightoverbite said:
I'm a little nervous bc this is my first posting. i've seen some people be nasty on the site and frankly i'm kind of worried about the responses.
Never be worried about what someone on the internet thinks or says about you. Then try and apply the same thinking to real life.
 

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thanks guys! i reallt appreciate it!:yes:

im glad to have some support. i'll try out what BigBanceProblem told me. Problem there is I always get a hangover when I drink, so I kind of stopped. But we'll see what happens.

also, i'm still wondering if any of you guys out there feel weird in terms of not wanting to be with a hot chick all the time. you know? well, i dont know if you know. that's why im asking.
 

TheVirtualMind

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Just took out the trash...

Anyway, playa hit the nail on the head. Read the DJ Bible, the HS Bible, and the links in the HS Bible thread.

If you have any specific questions that weren't answered, you can either post a thread or PM a moderator. We are always around.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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slightoverbite said:
also, i'm still wondering if any of you guys out there feel weird in terms of not wanting to be with a hot chick all the time. you know? well, i dont know if you know. that's why im asking.
no you are just scared of what can become of it... or you don't want to put yourself into a stressful situation.

for some people, hanging out with people that are "too good" makes them try to be someone they aren't... or try too hard. trying to constantly be someone you're not time after time after time puts you under stress.

people like to avoid stressful situations.
 
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