"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A little bit of randomness...(completely pointless thread)

Skilla_Staz

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I was looking through my call logs on my cell phone, and I noticed, most of the calls are very short. Whether they're incoming or outgoing, half of them are less than 30 seconds, and majority of them are less than 5 minutes. There is one single conversation that I'd consider "long" and it was 45 minutes with a close friend of mine, female of course.

I just found that interesting...


One incoming call lasted three seconds...I think I remember it clearly...

Girl calls...
I don't want to talk to her...
I answer, "at work"
I hangup...

Oh how lovely it is when you flip out on somebody, and they beg for forgiveness...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Cruise

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Fascinating.

This was random. Huh. How 'bout that...
 

Taviii

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I seriously think about moving out from this poor country. Is it easy to find a job in Omaha Nebraska?
 

Cruise

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^^^ NO.

It's easier to find a rich man in your poor country. :trouble:
 

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I'm a total cheapskate when it comes to phones, most of my calls last less than 10 seconds. Enough time to say "Hey dude we're at this place, meet us in 5 minutes", and get a reply "sure" or "nah can't make it".

However my friend is even cheaper, he would call you, let the phone ring once, then hang up, knowing you will call back. Hah!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Skilla_Staz

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I haven unlimited minutes, so i'm not worried. I just don't like talking on the phone for a long time...



As for finding a job, it's not that hard. Theres plenty of places where you can find part/full time jobs. Now, if you want one that pays good money, and that'll get you 'rich"... that might be another story.
 
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