"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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so, the first day of class, i made small talk (about the class) with this chick i THOUGHT was cute, only to find out she has like no ass, and is not that interesting. however, i made the horrible mistake of friending her on facebook and continuing to sit next to her in class...i really have no interest in tapping it but she seems to be into me...she's like HB6.5-HB7 on her best day, but like i said no ass, no pass..

BUT the other day i got huge IOI's from this CUTE AS HELL chick in the class... the problem? how do i approach cute as hell babe (HB8) without hurting original ugly babe's feelings? should i be like "hey, im gonna hang back and ask the teacher a question"....but then she might wanna hang around too..then im ****ed...esp cause we always talk about class **** and we're in the same discussion.


DON JUANS, WHAT DO I DO??? I WANNA PLUG HB8 AND KNOW SHE WANTS IT. HOW TO PROCEED?>?

(thought about sliping her a note, but is that way too childish for a 300-level college class? its american lit btw)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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come on man how are you letting this chick control your actions towards another chick? why are you worried about her feelings?
 

The Comeback Kid

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Just go sit next to the HB. If your new friend tries to follow you (as she will become a c-block), make the convo with the HB short during the class, then exchange numbers so you can set things up outside of class, and away from the girl you don't like. See if, after class, the HB is around to talk to as well.
 
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aaaahhhhahhahaha


yall are so right...who the **** cares what ugly babe thinks? do i expect her to remain celibate without me? she can talk to other guys, i can talk to other chicks. its not like we're married, we havent even hooked up. **** it. im just gonna go sit near HB or approach HB after class. and if its weird, so be it. im a ****ing man goddamit.


later yall
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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