"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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so, the first day of class, i made small talk (about the class) with this chick i THOUGHT was cute, only to find out she has like no ass, and is not that interesting. however, i made the horrible mistake of friending her on facebook and continuing to sit next to her in class...i really have no interest in tapping it but she seems to be into me...she's like HB6.5-HB7 on her best day, but like i said no ass, no pass..

BUT the other day i got huge IOI's from this CUTE AS HELL chick in the class... the problem? how do i approach cute as hell babe (HB8) without hurting original ugly babe's feelings? should i be like "hey, im gonna hang back and ask the teacher a question"....but then she might wanna hang around too..then im ****ed...esp cause we always talk about class **** and we're in the same discussion.


DON JUANS, WHAT DO I DO??? I WANNA PLUG HB8 AND KNOW SHE WANTS IT. HOW TO PROCEED?>?

(thought about sliping her a note, but is that way too childish for a 300-level college class? its american lit btw)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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come on man how are you letting this chick control your actions towards another chick? why are you worried about her feelings?
 

The Comeback Kid

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Just go sit next to the HB. If your new friend tries to follow you (as she will become a c-block), make the convo with the HB short during the class, then exchange numbers so you can set things up outside of class, and away from the girl you don't like. See if, after class, the HB is around to talk to as well.
 
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aaaahhhhahhahaha


yall are so right...who the **** cares what ugly babe thinks? do i expect her to remain celibate without me? she can talk to other guys, i can talk to other chicks. its not like we're married, we havent even hooked up. **** it. im just gonna go sit near HB or approach HB after class. and if its weird, so be it. im a ****ing man goddamit.


later yall
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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