Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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A little advice

Modro

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Me and my girlfriend just broke up after 10 months, the reasons is she claims to wants to be on her own. She then mentioned that she feels that i dont treat her well (i sometimes get frustrated from work, but generally i'm not an ******* or anything). Normally if we had a falling out we would sort it all out but this time she seems intent on not really giving it a chance.

I do want to be with her, is there anyway of saving this or a post in the bible that might help? Thanks for any help guys
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Modro

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well she has had it tough with her dad, sometimes she can get a bit upset with me and go home (she lives round the corner) its not unnormal so i give her some slack, i was a bit annoyed so i was very dismissive when she said she cant be with me anymore (as she does this every now and again) i have tried to speak to her and apologised but it doesnt look good
 

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I don't think this is covered in the bible man. Things escalated to the point of her breaking up with you, I am guessing here but she probably let on subtly that things werent working out (chicks like to imply something rather than say it because they are passive agressive and despise confrontation for the most part). Long story short, you probably lost her awhile ago and either pity or obligation was keeping her with you, of course it could be hope too. If it's pity or obligation, you're screwed, you wont last and if you do you will be miserable. If it's hope, you have a shot. Start acting like a man and be the leader in the relationship, if she wanted to take the reins she would have already and had you eating out of the palm of her hand... oh wait.
 
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