"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Me and my girlfriend just broke up after 10 months, the reasons is she claims to wants to be on her own. She then mentioned that she feels that i dont treat her well (i sometimes get frustrated from work, but generally i'm not an ******* or anything). Normally if we had a falling out we would sort it all out but this time she seems intent on not really giving it a chance.

I do want to be with her, is there anyway of saving this or a post in the bible that might help? Thanks for any help guys
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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well she has had it tough with her dad, sometimes she can get a bit upset with me and go home (she lives round the corner) its not unnormal so i give her some slack, i was a bit annoyed so i was very dismissive when she said she cant be with me anymore (as she does this every now and again) i have tried to speak to her and apologised but it doesnt look good
 
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I don't think this is covered in the bible man. Things escalated to the point of her breaking up with you, I am guessing here but she probably let on subtly that things werent working out (chicks like to imply something rather than say it because they are passive agressive and despise confrontation for the most part). Long story short, you probably lost her awhile ago and either pity or obligation was keeping her with you, of course it could be hope too. If it's pity or obligation, you're screwed, you wont last and if you do you will be miserable. If it's hope, you have a shot. Start acting like a man and be the leader in the relationship, if she wanted to take the reins she would have already and had you eating out of the palm of her hand... oh wait.
 
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