a lingering next

[chancer]

How is it that so many of you guys just move on and next someone when something doesn't work out with a lady? I remember i use to next girls without feeling. Now it's a rage i've developed within. I'm not the best at hiding it, but wtf, should i kiss a girls ass after something doesn't work out? It's been so hard lately cause i've recently started working out... hormones are circulating my body and ****... i just don't know how to deal with it sometimes. suggestions?

 

[huge_guy_pimpin]

Originally posted by chancer
How is it that so many of you guys just move on and next someone when something doesn't work out with a lady? I remember i use to next girls without feeling. Now it's a rage i've developed within. I'm not the best at hiding it, but wtf, should i kiss a girls ass after something doesn't work out? It's been so hard lately cause i've recently started working out... hormones are circulating my body and ****... i just don't know how to deal with it sometimes. suggestions?

can u summarize your question and maybe re-word it in a clear way ?

 

[chancer]

How do you guys deal with moving on when you have or had interest in a girl?

 

[Engetsu]

You dimish contact with her gradually... If you used to talk every night, try talking every 3 nights for the next 3 times, then every week for the next 2 times, and she'll eventually disappear out of your life.

If you're more hardcore, you can abruptly cut off contact, but I like to do things smoothly.

Either way, when you decide to next a girl mentally, it will show in your way of acting with her, and she won't stick around for long.

 

[Wiesman44]

I dont know about you, but I approach a decent amount of girls in my time. And i've gotten a good # of rejections. I throw my best game, but I dont completely expect the girl to take it. IF she does, awesome, if she doesn't then oh well.

If you dont approach a lot of women, rejections will be hard for you to get over. Approach a lot, and one rejection will mean nothing to you.

Now if you've developed one-itis, now thats different. Ive dated some women for a month or so and gotten dumped in my afc days, and i took it fairly hard, but in a matter of weeks, all was fine. Take it as it comes.