Swampcamel
Don Juan
*cuts wrists*
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
A life of solitude and loneliness
- Thread starter TheLoner
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
LiveFreeX
Banned
I got beat within an inch of my life... made me stronger cause later on in life I surpassed all those losers that used to do that to me. I'm living the dream in asia dude...
Anyway this is not a post about foreign women but why not start a new life in a different city... Chicago sucks balls man, that place is depressing as hell. There are so many southern states that are much nicer, I find people friendlier from the Southern USA than from the North, why not move to somewhere closer to Mexico and date the girls around there...or just hit up Mexico period. If you are still young enough, go work in the oil fields in North Dakota for a bit and then take your money and punch out... you can live quite well in Peru/Mexico on 10 grand for a year or two.
Buddha_Mind
Master Don Juan
Social skills must be practiced my man else they degrade. Practic reaching out and connecting to others. There's tons of books out there if you're unsure.