Swampcamel
Don Juan
*cuts wrists*
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
A life of solitude and loneliness
- Thread starter TheLoner
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
LiveFreeX
Banned
I got beat within an inch of my life... made me stronger cause later on in life I surpassed all those losers that used to do that to me. I'm living the dream in asia dude...
Anyway this is not a post about foreign women but why not start a new life in a different city... Chicago sucks balls man, that place is depressing as hell. There are so many southern states that are much nicer, I find people friendlier from the Southern USA than from the North, why not move to somewhere closer to Mexico and date the girls around there...or just hit up Mexico period. If you are still young enough, go work in the oil fields in North Dakota for a bit and then take your money and punch out... you can live quite well in Peru/Mexico on 10 grand for a year or two.
Buddha_Mind
Master Don Juan
Social skills must be practiced my man else they degrade. Practic reaching out and connecting to others. There's tons of books out there if you're unsure.