"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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muffinman8400

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A UG9 friend asked me if I would like to go to the movies with her friend a few days ago...I brushed it off, but what should I do should something like this happen again? I do not want a relationship with aforementioned girl. And I don't know her friend at all. could be hot, or not, but the ug is out of the question. So, any advice?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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LOL this is a reversal of our game guys... How would you feel if a girl always went over this problem with you?

She can take you to the movie.

How do you know the UG9? If your friends, you go to the movie as a friend. Than HER friend is who you choose to escalate.

The thing is, you should always be busy. Don't make up things that you are busy about, that's attention hoe solutions, and that's not what you are wanting to become.

You could always tell her that you just want to be friends... wait for her to say something, and than say whatever, and than accept going to the movies with her if she pays:)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ugly vs hot

hot is 1-10
1 If absolutely desperate
10 every chance I had

ugly being
1 If absolutely desperate
10 never say never? pfft, never is an understatement
 

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That's a funny one.
I find that ugly chicks hang out with ugly chicks, and hot chicks hang out with hot chicks. Atleast, in most cliques.
 
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