A lady being recommended to me! Advice needed.

[bario]

A relative of mine was talking about a friend daughter and how good, stable she and her family is... and if I was thinking of something seroius (marriage!) she is the one.

Assuming you're interested in the idea, and you somehow trust the person mentioning this, how would you approach this and try to connect with her without sounding creepy or needy?

I know she is on Facebook (which I don't use)!

Your advice is appreciated.

 

[sexymanman]

Be confident. You gotta be a player at least in your mind. I recommend you jerk off to porn on pornhub at least twice a day to get you in the player mindset. That's something you can tell her that you do. It's gotta come across as a joke but it's really true. Don't take anything she says seriously.

 

[sexymanman]

Don't tell her straight away. Tell some other funny **** get her giggling then joke about sexual ****. Tell her you wish you could suck your own **** then you wouldn't need women. Again it has to come across as comedy. Watch some comedy by yourself and even with this girl. That's a great date. I suggest south park, family guy, fat pizza, houseos, swift and shift couriers, dumb criminals, brotown, shreek, Eddie Murphy raw, Adam Sandler movies, American pie, Rob Snyder movies.

 

[Black Widow Void]

Keep in mind that while you may trust this person making the recommendation, their idea of "ideal" and yours might entirely differ.

I think it's great that you don't use facebook. With this being said though, I'm going to make a suggestion.
If you have a trusted friend that has an account, have them look this gal up. You'll possibly discover something about their value system (if you're considering potential marriage, this is important). You'll also get an idea of her attitude, looks etc... By the way, if you only see photos of her from the shoulders up, keep in mind that it this may be a result of being overweight. Another benefit is that if you're feeling a little anxious about this setting up, you'll now have more familiarity on the situation; which consequently will allow you to feel more relaxed.

Good luck.

 

[bcude]

Always when a woman of some kind wants to "set me up" with someone, it's been someone not in my taste. Women love this kind of stuff.
Take it as a compliment, check her out, but don't have high expectations since it's basically a blind date and that's like playing roulette.

 

[biggoal]

Do you know what she looks like? Is she hot? Somehow get on a friends facebook and look her up.

Imagine if this is a 240lb landwhale lol.

 

[Kotaix]

At least you're getting that. I have a really close friend who won't recommend any of her single female friends to me because she recognizes that they're all crazy and wouldn't want to do that to me.

 

[bario]

I was informed that there is a party (mini concert) that she is attending along her family by the end of the month. I'm free that day, so I will most likely go since it's very close to my place and I might meet other women too!

Managed to see her FB account through someone and she is good looking actually!

Will see how I will manage this then, since I beleive they only spoke to me about her not vice versa

 

[Black Widow Void]

and I might meet other women too!

Sounds to me like you're in a great frame of mind for things to occur. Lots of people wouldn't be.
Keep us posted.

 

[bcude]

Sounds to me like you're in a great frame of mind for things to occur. Lots of people wouldn't be.
Keep us posted.

+1, and don't forget pics. Pics or it didn't happen!

 

[Trump]

A relative of mine was talking about a friend daughter and how good, stable she and her family is... and if I was thinking of something seroius (marriage!) she is the one.

That’s great.

Now you just have to find out if she if thinking of something serious (marriage!)

how would you approach this and try to connect with her without sounding creepy or needy?

I know she is on Facebook (which I don't use)!

‘Hey relative, there is a new concert in town and I’d think she would enjoy it. Could you pass her number along to me? I’d love to talk to her and invite her to the concert.”

Not brain surgery.

BTW - not using Facebook is creepy or nerdy!

 

[Epic Days]

Well you have your friend introduce you to her. That’s how.