"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A job that would help

SupaPowa

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Hey guys.
I'm getting laid off my current job with a two week notice and I recently wondered something...
Is there a min wage job that helps a guy become more confident when talking to people? Probably customer services kinda stuff?



*And yes, I say minimum wage cause I'm almost always broke and my last attempt at OSAP was BEFORE medication and therapy so that didn't go so well thus I have no way of affording college.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dra901

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There's always the option of being a barista at a starbucks? Think about it.

For the most part youre doing an easy job and every so often theres the decent-looking woman who always comes to get a non-fat soy latte or something similar that you could strike up some small-talk with.


Or a waiter maybe? There's tons of opportunities, depending on where you live
 

RedZone

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A retail job can help you gain some confidence. I'm pretty much in same the same boast as you. I recently left a job because they weren't being straight with me. So, now just get some cash I'll work at a store for the holiday's. It's not all bad though def. be able to practice my game!
 

AAAgent

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go into sales. All you do all day is call people or arrange for face to face meetings.

It's a whole lot of cold calling, cold approaching, aggressive + soft tactics. Plus if you work hard you get paid well on your commissions. There is always a need for sales people.
 
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