"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A job that would help

SupaPowa

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Hey guys.
I'm getting laid off my current job with a two week notice and I recently wondered something...
Is there a min wage job that helps a guy become more confident when talking to people? Probably customer services kinda stuff?



*And yes, I say minimum wage cause I'm almost always broke and my last attempt at OSAP was BEFORE medication and therapy so that didn't go so well thus I have no way of affording college.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dra901

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There's always the option of being a barista at a starbucks? Think about it.

For the most part youre doing an easy job and every so often theres the decent-looking woman who always comes to get a non-fat soy latte or something similar that you could strike up some small-talk with.


Or a waiter maybe? There's tons of opportunities, depending on where you live
 

RedZone

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A retail job can help you gain some confidence. I'm pretty much in same the same boast as you. I recently left a job because they weren't being straight with me. So, now just get some cash I'll work at a store for the holiday's. It's not all bad though def. be able to practice my game!
 

AAAgent

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go into sales. All you do all day is call people or arrange for face to face meetings.

It's a whole lot of cold calling, cold approaching, aggressive + soft tactics. Plus if you work hard you get paid well on your commissions. There is always a need for sales people.
 
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