"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey peeps, this is my first tips post. I feel that naturally I am a DJ and hopefully i am qualified to do give a tip! so......... sit back and ENJOY.

Firstly, I think that the best DJ's on this forum are the ones who are out in the field. A general consensus here is that you should sit back and let the women come to you......yes and no. A confidant man should ascertain the skills to to pick up girls. If that means learning some tricks and techniques to get you on your feet then go right ahead. The main point I am stressing here is you should be able to approach girls like there is no tomorrow. It should be SECOND nature to talk to girls and with EXPERIENCE you will become charismatic and you should have a number of girls by your arm.

As far as mindset goes I LOVE the mentality this forum attempts to engrave in young AFC's minds. A MAN should be INDEPENDENT!! He should want to be with women be not NEED to be with them. Yes, thats right, you have your own life. By living your own life and pursuing you own goals you will automatically assert yourself as the so-called 'alpha-male', and women will recognize this from you personality. Subconsciously you will be giving your girl space to live her own life too and think about you.

Lets face it, there is more to life than girls, so pursue your own desires and dreams, while at the same time go out into the field and enhance your life with hot babes. Just don't be a STAGE FIVE CLINGER (wedding crashers)

P.S. i read a good tip in here somewhere that if you are intimidated by a girls beauty imagine that she has a HAIRY ASS!!! That should do the trick!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You summarized different pieces of material already on the site - other than that there's nothing really new about this post.
 

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Seriously? I never noticed that....not. However, a nice summary I think you should have added
 

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PUA said:
Seriously? I never noticed that....not. However, a nice summary I think you should have added
There is nothing wrong with your post.. just nothing new :)
 

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Most of the stuff on this site has been written before. Writing tends to ingrain certain concepts into our heads. It also tends to clear our own thoughts. So even if PUA is repeating material, he is actually learning and making strides by setting it to stone.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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