"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hey peeps, this is my first tips post. I feel that naturally I am a DJ and hopefully i am qualified to do give a tip! so......... sit back and ENJOY.

Firstly, I think that the best DJ's on this forum are the ones who are out in the field. A general consensus here is that you should sit back and let the women come to you......yes and no. A confidant man should ascertain the skills to to pick up girls. If that means learning some tricks and techniques to get you on your feet then go right ahead. The main point I am stressing here is you should be able to approach girls like there is no tomorrow. It should be SECOND nature to talk to girls and with EXPERIENCE you will become charismatic and you should have a number of girls by your arm.

As far as mindset goes I LOVE the mentality this forum attempts to engrave in young AFC's minds. A MAN should be INDEPENDENT!! He should want to be with women be not NEED to be with them. Yes, thats right, you have your own life. By living your own life and pursuing you own goals you will automatically assert yourself as the so-called 'alpha-male', and women will recognize this from you personality. Subconsciously you will be giving your girl space to live her own life too and think about you.

Lets face it, there is more to life than girls, so pursue your own desires and dreams, while at the same time go out into the field and enhance your life with hot babes. Just don't be a STAGE FIVE CLINGER (wedding crashers)

P.S. i read a good tip in here somewhere that if you are intimidated by a girls beauty imagine that she has a HAIRY ASS!!! That should do the trick!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Incog

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You summarized different pieces of material already on the site - other than that there's nothing really new about this post.
 

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Seriously? I never noticed that....not. However, a nice summary I think you should have added
 

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PUA said:
Seriously? I never noticed that....not. However, a nice summary I think you should have added
There is nothing wrong with your post.. just nothing new :)
 

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Most of the stuff on this site has been written before. Writing tends to ingrain certain concepts into our heads. It also tends to clear our own thoughts. So even if PUA is repeating material, he is actually learning and making strides by setting it to stone.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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