"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A guy was talking **** about me to a girl while I was at a date with her

Who Dares Win

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Sometimes Im impressed how low certain guys can fall, I was at a date with a girl, we were eating at the restaurant and begun making out even before the food arrived (the place was intimate not a crowded fast food), there was strong feeling between us and so on.

At some point she takes a picture of us sitting close togheter instead of at opposite sides of the table near our food and update her facebook with the picture and some line like great dinner with a great guy or something like that.

Few seconds later her phone starts ringing, many messages on whatsapp messanger arrive and after reading them she shown a confused face, the messages were from a common "friend" with which she had something, guess they fvcked but not sure since she dropped him.

He was basically telling her that I was a loser who is used to pick up hookers and brag about it pretending they are normal girls, she shown me the messages and asked me about it.

At first I was equally surprised and angry especially because I considered that guy to be somehow my friend, not a great friend but a least someone I could have on my side.

I managed to control any hint of anger also because she wasnt quite nervous, more like a "I cant believe" attitude and simply told her with a ****y/bored tone that as she can see herself I dont do such things and that I was disappointed how a guy can get so low.

The thing finished right after and few minutes later the mood was back as before anyway I wonder what would it be if instead of showing me the messages she would have believed it, I would have lost a fvck buddy, got my reputation ruined without even knowing why.

I'm not mad nor I will seek vengeace against that guy, I just dont want anything to do with him anymore and made it clear to our common friends, just glad I got rid of such scum before it could make bigger damages.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Who Dares Win

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How we he know you supposedly picked up hookers?
I never picked up hookers or bragging about them telling people that they are my girls, I just told that loser that a girl I was dating was fvcked up in the head and liked to fvck around.

He made up the story to fight what he believed was "competition" for a girl he still wants.
 

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you should've smiled, laughed, made a joke or two("ooh, did he mention my street name or my title as the king of pimps? because those are pretty important too"), then shrugged it off and changed the subject.

if you get angry or nervous or anything it could look suspicious, but if you show that you don't give a **** what some loser says about you it'll come off like you're a confident alpha and he's just a hater.
 

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Agree with what Brad said, that some guys are so hungry for certain pu**y that they will do anything to get it. Snakes.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

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