"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A Group Thing?

iChris

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OK here's my situation:

The girl I'm after is hard is a bit of a challenge. She's cute, talented and fun. We've known each other for but just cuz she went the same church as me. I got her email off a friend but she rarely comes online - I'll have to build rapport some other way.

Yesterday I learned some of my friends are getting together for bowling and she'll be coming. The plan now is to get her number so I can set up a date later. Do you guys have any tips or advice I could use? What should I be doing in the group situation?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Be normal with your friends. Make her have a good time ( dont be a pu$$y) , joke with her etc.. While going you can ask for her nuber if you desire. But dont go to the venue to get her number. Its not a mission you have to accomplish , commando style. Its an event you go to enjoy..
 
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