"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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OK here's my situation:

The girl I'm after is hard is a bit of a challenge. She's cute, talented and fun. We've known each other for but just cuz she went the same church as me. I got her email off a friend but she rarely comes online - I'll have to build rapport some other way.

Yesterday I learned some of my friends are getting together for bowling and she'll be coming. The plan now is to get her number so I can set up a date later. Do you guys have any tips or advice I could use? What should I be doing in the group situation?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Be normal with your friends. Make her have a good time ( dont be a pu$$y) , joke with her etc.. While going you can ask for her nuber if you desire. But dont go to the venue to get her number. Its not a mission you have to accomplish , commando style. Its an event you go to enjoy..
 
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