Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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A great plot with a twist-maybe your advice needed

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hello all

my mother owns a daycare, and one of the mothers is attracted to me, we started to kick it and g out and we've been out a couple of times,she digging me a lot shes 26 going on 27 and am 19..she married with 2 kid(one of them is my moms daycare and loves me to death

Thursday hb1 invites me to to the spa and we both get our feets and nails tuned up, we had a ball

Friday i invite her and her 2 friends along with my friends including a hb2 and we all go the lakefront and get drunk,some guys show up hb1 and friends know and hb1 is all over some dude) I'm all over this over hb2 and than hb1 and both of them are asking me if either of them are my girlfriend like 4 times and i tell them both no) hb2 ends up spending the night with me but i dont hit(i tell hb1 about hb2 spending the night and shes gets hella jealous


Saturday she invites to this b-day party(her friend from the night before),(before i get there she asks me if i like like her and she likes me likes me i tell her yea) show up and everyone's fully loaded drunk dancing and etc .. next thing u know shes in the room with the door locked with some dude for like 30 mins(the night before the same dude she was wit at the lakefront,hugging and kissing

next thing i know(hb1 and 2 of her friends(from the night before) along with me and another guy(just met him),ended up in a room with the door locked one chick sucked me and others guy **** right infront of hb1 and her friend but hb1 and friend laughed all day, all on the wall and shi,anyway we finish and continuing party all night, hb1 is mad i let her friend suck me up) (i tell her , she can get mad because she did her thing with dude in the room, and she says some bs about they were talking anyway)we end up making out and almost ****ed but she was on her period(i felt the pad)..anyway(keep in mind were drunk)

she calls me today, and the conversation was good, but it sounds like she wants to me to be here boyfriend and talk to her on the phone all day but shes married with two kids

how should i go about this? she usually only gets days off on the weekends
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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RUN like you stole something.You don't want that cheating female dog for anything other than sex and you can find that easily without the complications. There are several threads on this topic-just scroll down and read them. This is about the 4th time I've answered the same question in the last month. Save the others from having to post their answers
 
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Thx for the advice, I'd like to hear from different prospectives
 
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bringing this from the dead...i nexted this chick...but she recently wants to hang out..i want to hear some peoples opinions
 

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Hb1 & 2 as in reference or score outta 10?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lion said:
Hb1 & 2 as in reference or score outta 10?
I was thinking the same thing! HB1 is an oxymoron anyway
 
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i just mean 1 and 2 not out of a 10 scale ma bad for confusion
 
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