"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A great plot with a twist-maybe your advice needed

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hello all

my mother owns a daycare, and one of the mothers is attracted to me, we started to kick it and g out and we've been out a couple of times,she digging me a lot shes 26 going on 27 and am 19..she married with 2 kid(one of them is my moms daycare and loves me to death

Thursday hb1 invites me to to the spa and we both get our feets and nails tuned up, we had a ball

Friday i invite her and her 2 friends along with my friends including a hb2 and we all go the lakefront and get drunk,some guys show up hb1 and friends know and hb1 is all over some dude) I'm all over this over hb2 and than hb1 and both of them are asking me if either of them are my girlfriend like 4 times and i tell them both no) hb2 ends up spending the night with me but i dont hit(i tell hb1 about hb2 spending the night and shes gets hella jealous


Saturday she invites to this b-day party(her friend from the night before),(before i get there she asks me if i like like her and she likes me likes me i tell her yea) show up and everyone's fully loaded drunk dancing and etc .. next thing u know shes in the room with the door locked with some dude for like 30 mins(the night before the same dude she was wit at the lakefront,hugging and kissing

next thing i know(hb1 and 2 of her friends(from the night before) along with me and another guy(just met him),ended up in a room with the door locked one chick sucked me and others guy **** right infront of hb1 and her friend but hb1 and friend laughed all day, all on the wall and shi,anyway we finish and continuing party all night, hb1 is mad i let her friend suck me up) (i tell her , she can get mad because she did her thing with dude in the room, and she says some bs about they were talking anyway)we end up making out and almost ****ed but she was on her period(i felt the pad)..anyway(keep in mind were drunk)

she calls me today, and the conversation was good, but it sounds like she wants to me to be here boyfriend and talk to her on the phone all day but shes married with two kids

how should i go about this? she usually only gets days off on the weekends
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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RUN like you stole something.You don't want that cheating female dog for anything other than sex and you can find that easily without the complications. There are several threads on this topic-just scroll down and read them. This is about the 4th time I've answered the same question in the last month. Save the others from having to post their answers
 
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Thx for the advice, I'd like to hear from different prospectives
 
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bringing this from the dead...i nexted this chick...but she recently wants to hang out..i want to hear some peoples opinions
 

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Hb1 & 2 as in reference or score outta 10?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Lion said:
Hb1 & 2 as in reference or score outta 10?
I was thinking the same thing! HB1 is an oxymoron anyway
 
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i just mean 1 and 2 not out of a 10 scale ma bad for confusion
 
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