"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
A Great Body...
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Cod3r said:Classic ^ ^
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Yeah, don't get me wrong. I'm not trying to be absolutely a monster like some sort of 'creation' or something, I just want the look of when I throw on a button up shirt, you can see some body in the outline...
I just want to turn heads basically. I get sly looks and AI's because of my style and my great face, but I want that 'jaw-dropping-omg' reaction when a girl sees me. I believe with my current stats, if I get pretty buff it'll break me into 9's and 10's giving me AI's instead of 7's and 8's....
Oh and also someone mentioned doing it for girls, not really I'm doing it for myself to give me an edge over other guys and just straight up dominate other guys just by walking in the room. I already have the dominant personality but I want other guys to fear me and girls to be intimidated by me. I've seen the looks some guys at my school get and they litteraly walk around and people are so intimidated by them, both guys and girls...
They say one word to females and the girls are 'swooning' and 'passing out' on the floor. I guess i'm a little jealous because for me it took alot of rejection and time to even get the girls i used to get (required a good deal of effort). These beheomeths just walk in the room and BLAM... its over
-Cod3r
but dont forget. some women will not let themselves acknowledge you. they can hide the fact that they are attracted to you. i have noticed this im bulking up now im 6'2 and 165. when i was 6'2 and 155 i got attention but now im bigger take care oif my face. ill have to say im proud of my face and how smooth and nice it is (lol). but women check me out when i pass them bye but only once i have walked pass them. i think pook was right when he said you get to a point were some insecure women will not even try it with you cuss they hate a guy bettter looking than them. i noticed also 7's might not bother looking at me., then all of a sudden a 9 stares at me .
dont do it for women.
when i was a pretty boy with my braids. one time i basically saw these two hot girls stop and say wow. i was skinny back then 6'2 154. so bulking isnt a must. i do it to look more manly and powerfull thats all.
I feel it a little now, when average girls might not want to acknowlege my 'hotness' (lol), but the 9's and 10's I'm still pretty average to them. I am at a physical level where 8's will give me AI's pretty consistently and I no longer have to put in so much effort to get them, but to break through 9's and 10's drooling over me...
I need to get up to 185 at least... 148 now (I gained a pound so far)
-Cod3r
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no, its not possible, thats not biologically possible, even with roids. hes lying, unless he gained 50 lbs of fat, now that is possible.ValleyDJing said:you put on 50 f.ucking pounds in 7 months?! Is that even possible, because I've been working out for like a year and I gained 20 lbs max?
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1) Glutamine doesn't help with joints. It's for recovery purposes. Glucosamine/chondroitin/MSM helps with joints. So does fish oil.
2) Creatine is also found in red meat and fish, though in small amounts.
3) There have been no long term studies proving multivitamins benefit your health. It's generally accepted than they help, and they're certainly not bad for you. Take em anyway, just don't think "I won't ever get sick cause I'm taking a multi". Most typical illnesses are mental anyway.
4) Fish oil helps with a ton of stuff. It contains Essential Fatty Acids, essential because your body can't produce them on its own and must get them from food sources. Too many health benefits to list.
If this was the first post in question and phrased a bit nicer, I'd link to my pics and what not. But I'm tired of explaining myself so I'm just going to have to say shut up and go search the thread.God_of_getting_layed said:no, its not possible, thats not biologically possible, even with roids. hes lying, unless he gained 50 lbs of fat, now that is possible.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.