Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Cod3r said:Classic ^ ^
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Yeah, don't get me wrong. I'm not trying to be absolutely a monster like some sort of 'creation' or something, I just want the look of when I throw on a button up shirt, you can see some body in the outline...
I just want to turn heads basically. I get sly looks and AI's because of my style and my great face, but I want that 'jaw-dropping-omg' reaction when a girl sees me. I believe with my current stats, if I get pretty buff it'll break me into 9's and 10's giving me AI's instead of 7's and 8's....
Oh and also someone mentioned doing it for girls, not really I'm doing it for myself to give me an edge over other guys and just straight up dominate other guys just by walking in the room. I already have the dominant personality but I want other guys to fear me and girls to be intimidated by me. I've seen the looks some guys at my school get and they litteraly walk around and people are so intimidated by them, both guys and girls...
They say one word to females and the girls are 'swooning' and 'passing out' on the floor. I guess i'm a little jealous because for me it took alot of rejection and time to even get the girls i used to get (required a good deal of effort). These beheomeths just walk in the room and BLAM... its over
-Cod3r
no, its not possible, thats not biologically possible, even with roids. hes lying, unless he gained 50 lbs of fat, now that is possible.ValleyDJing said:you put on 50 f.ucking pounds in 7 months?! Is that even possible, because I've been working out for like a year and I gained 20 lbs max?
If this was the first post in question and phrased a bit nicer, I'd link to my pics and what not. But I'm tired of explaining myself so I'm just going to have to say shut up and go search the thread.God_of_getting_layed said:no, its not possible, thats not biologically possible, even with roids. hes lying, unless he gained 50 lbs of fat, now that is possible.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.