"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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A good week....ends 2 hours away.

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Alright heres the deal, Last week I went on a trip 2 hours away from were I live for a week. So me and tihs girls start talking and were like hanging out all the time. she was always just there for me even when I got sick. So of course after al lthat goes well ends well. I have to go home and she lives 2 hours away and I can't stop thinking about her. Me and my freid were thinking about driving up there every so often becasue he is getting his lsicense withinh the next month but I only get mine in a year. and I seriosuly wanna get to know her better at least become really good friends with her... I want someone like her in my life perferably a gf but as a good friend I would not mind either.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Get her e-mail, phone or SN. These seem to be the only solution if you're inclined to get to know her better. Otherwise, she's one person - 2 hours away. That makes for a 4 hour trip. She isn't your girlfriend so I would definetly not concern myself with her. To do so, and to drive up there after knowing her for only a week, would be unhealthy in my opinion.

Also, does she feel the same way about you?

She is not yout girlfriend right now so she is not worth the trouble.
 

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I already got those, but I am pretty sure she has got the same feelings because she was following me aroudn the whole time giving me back massages and back rubs and hugs and right before I left she held my arm well I was in the van and she was out and Kept asking me for gus before I left to. and she isn't one of the sluty girls shes one of those more quite hot nice girls.
 

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Are you trying to somehow justify caring for her? You had an opportunity during that week and from my understanding you did not capitalize on it. That opportunity is not longer available right now. If she was nearly as interested as you, then I feel something would have happened.

Again, even if things are as you say they are- you're interested and so is she. Backrubs and what not. You're not gonna drive 4 fvcking hours for a back rub!

And by the sound of your final moments, a big opportunity may have been missed. If that is the case, then she has moved on.

Use her contact info sparringly if you do pursue. Best of luck.
 

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you know because my parents woulda left me live there...(sarcasm)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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