Alright heres the deal, Last week I went on a trip 2 hours away from were I live for a week. So me and tihs girls start talking and were like hanging out all the time. she was always just there for me even when I got sick. So of course after al lthat goes well ends well. I have to go home and she lives 2 hours away and I can't stop thinking about her. Me and my freid were thinking about driving up there every so often becasue he is getting his lsicense withinh the next month but I only get mine in a year. and I seriosuly wanna get to know her better at least become really good friends with her... I want someone like her in my life perferably a gf but as a good friend I would not mind either.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
A good week....ends 2 hours away.
- Thread starter Dustin
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