"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A Good Routine. May Need Some Work

Skilla_Staz

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Sunday: Athletic Work
40yd Sprints (4)
60yd Sprints (2)
10yd Sprints (4)
15 Minutes Jump Rope
Agility Ladder


Monday: Bench Routine
Cleans: 6x4
Bench: Work Up to 3RM
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Assistance:
DB Incline Press 4x6
Dips (Weighted) 4x5
Skull Crushers 4x8
DB Overhead Extensions 3x8


Tuesday: Rest


Wednesday: Squat Routine
Snatch 6x4
Squat Work Up to 3RM
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Assistance:
Front Squat 4x6
Glute/Hams 4x6
Good Mornings 3x10
Calf Raises 4x6


Thursday: Rest


Friday: Deadlift Routine
Clean & Jerk 6x4
Deadlift Work Up to 3RM
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Assistance:
Pull Ups
Close Grip(Palms Facing Eachother) 3x6
Wide Grip (Palms Facing Away from Body) 3x6
Military Press 4x6
Barbell Rows 4x10
EZ Curls 4x6

Saturday: Grip Routine*/Core Work
Leg Raises(Weighted) 5x6
Cable Crunches (Weighted) 5x6
Broom Twists 4x10
Reverse Crunch 3x8
*Will Research and Discuss
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Are you training for a sport?

I would suggest lowering the volume for your weight training, especially with the assistance work.

Also if you are training for sport, it would be a good idea to throw in some GPP conditioning work on your 'off' days from weight training (e.g. tempo runs, sled drags, bodyweight calisthenics circuits, uphill sprints etc.)
 

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Yes, I'm training for football and track more or less. Trying to gain explosiveness and mass for football. Why lower the volume? I had this routine critiqued on another forum, designed solely for lifting and fitness, this is the end result.

Got a link for some GPP so I can get a better idea of what on earth you're talking about?
 

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Well after doing 6 sets of heavy o-lifts and working upto a 3RM in a powerlift, I wouldn't really feel upto doing another 15-20 sets of assistance lifts. Limit the assistance lifts to 2-3 exercises, because there's definitely no point in doing the amount you are, not the most economical way of training.

Here are some links for GPP:

http://www.dolfzine.com/page513.htm
http://www.elitefts.com/ (do a search for GPP here, there's plenty of good articles)
http://www.gamespeed.biz/articles.htm
http://www.t-nation.com/readTopic.do?id=468125
 

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Thanks for that stuff. I'll try incorporating that on my "Athletic" days
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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