"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A Good Routine. May Need Some Work

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Sunday: Athletic Work
40yd Sprints (4)
60yd Sprints (2)
10yd Sprints (4)
15 Minutes Jump Rope
Agility Ladder


Monday: Bench Routine
Cleans: 6x4
Bench: Work Up to 3RM
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Assistance:
DB Incline Press 4x6
Dips (Weighted) 4x5
Skull Crushers 4x8
DB Overhead Extensions 3x8


Tuesday: Rest


Wednesday: Squat Routine
Snatch 6x4
Squat Work Up to 3RM
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Assistance:
Front Squat 4x6
Glute/Hams 4x6
Good Mornings 3x10
Calf Raises 4x6


Thursday: Rest


Friday: Deadlift Routine
Clean & Jerk 6x4
Deadlift Work Up to 3RM
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Assistance:
Pull Ups
Close Grip(Palms Facing Eachother) 3x6
Wide Grip (Palms Facing Away from Body) 3x6
Military Press 4x6
Barbell Rows 4x10
EZ Curls 4x6

Saturday: Grip Routine*/Core Work
Leg Raises(Weighted) 5x6
Cable Crunches (Weighted) 5x6
Broom Twists 4x10
Reverse Crunch 3x8
*Will Research and Discuss
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Are you training for a sport?

I would suggest lowering the volume for your weight training, especially with the assistance work.

Also if you are training for sport, it would be a good idea to throw in some GPP conditioning work on your 'off' days from weight training (e.g. tempo runs, sled drags, bodyweight calisthenics circuits, uphill sprints etc.)
 

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Yes, I'm training for football and track more or less. Trying to gain explosiveness and mass for football. Why lower the volume? I had this routine critiqued on another forum, designed solely for lifting and fitness, this is the end result.

Got a link for some GPP so I can get a better idea of what on earth you're talking about?
 

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Well after doing 6 sets of heavy o-lifts and working upto a 3RM in a powerlift, I wouldn't really feel upto doing another 15-20 sets of assistance lifts. Limit the assistance lifts to 2-3 exercises, because there's definitely no point in doing the amount you are, not the most economical way of training.

Here are some links for GPP:

http://www.dolfzine.com/page513.htm
http://www.elitefts.com/ (do a search for GPP here, there's plenty of good articles)
http://www.gamespeed.biz/articles.htm
http://www.t-nation.com/readTopic.do?id=468125
 

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Thanks for that stuff. I'll try incorporating that on my "Athletic" days
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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