“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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A good reason not to get married

El Payaso

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I saw this in someone's post recently and found it interesting. http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/11644430

It seems like men are just a means to an end (wedding, kids, house etc) for many women.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think I read it on this forum that psychologists often have more issues than their clients.
A clinical psychologist is a red flag for me in a woman. Not a deal breaker but it definitely makes me cautious. I dated one once who believed BPD could be cured and specialized in seeing BPD clients. I ran for the hills.

The advice the woman gave is insane and totally unprofessional. I can't believe what I just read.
 

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It's funny how guys go into a marriage thinking they will get consistent sex.
 

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What happend here is quite simple. She doesn't love him anymore. When a woman is in love with you they want to have sex with you. She may still "like" her husband but it's obvious she doesn't love him anymore.

She will hang in for a couple of more years let him pay more of the morgage down build more equity in the house, he will give up emotionally check out on the marriage, she will then start screwing other men, file for divorce blame everything on him and take half of his life earnings away and feel justified i doing it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A very good reason indeed. But let's not say all marriages are like this. however I do know quite a few marriages that are like this. How prevalent is the marriage of infrequent sex?
 
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