"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Cooler King

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I read somewhere about props and how to strike up convosation.

One girl that I...messed around with....has given me a T-shirt.

Not only it is quite confortable for being cotton it says "Man whor3" (without the 3) on the front.

I just noticed after so much time that it could be used as a prop.
And during that time I never wore it cause of fear of bad responses.

What do you guys think, and what do you think I could say in response?

I got one where I say, yes I am, but I'm not cheap...and by the looks of it you wont be able to afford a inch of me.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A prop is just used so she can comment on something after the inital approach... you can run into a story saying how you got it at the grotto in the playboy playhouse when your clothes mysteriously disappeared.

She's gonna know it's bull**** but its a fun story anyway :D
 

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Originally posted by syncmaster
A prop is just used so she can comment on something after the inital approach... you can run into a story saying how you got it at the grotto in the playboy playhouse when your clothes mysteriously disappeared.

She's gonna know it's bull**** but its a fun story anyway :D
haha I like that one. :crackup:
 

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F a tshirt, get a baby!!

You want a prop, borrow somebody's kid, preferably very young baby who still has to be held. Or if you have a niece or nephew you can use. Then take said baby to the place where you can think of where the most HB's congregate and just do your thing. I would be willing to bet you good money that at least one of them will open you when they see you coddling the baby, especially if you look like you're having a hard time doing something, like , whatever, setting it back down into the stroller or whatever, go out of your way to make it look like you're having a bit of a hard time but are really really loving being with the baby nonetheless. Couple with that w/being well-dressed and well-groomed the day(s) you do this, you'll be on fire. ~Dino
 

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Re: F a tshirt, get a baby!!

Originally posted by DinoCassanova
You want a prop, borrow somebody's kid, preferably very young baby who still has to be held. Or if you have a niece or nephew you can use. Then take said baby to the place where you can think of where the most HB's congregate and just do your thing. I would be willing to bet you good money that at least one of them will open you when they see you coddling the baby, especially if you look like you're having a hard time doing something, like , whatever, setting it back down into the stroller or whatever, go out of your way to make it look like you're having a bit of a hard time but are really really loving being with the baby nonetheless. Couple with that w/being well-dressed and well-groomed the day(s) you do this, you'll be on fire. ~Dino
I wont get that while in college.

I did have a good response with a stick that I picked up and used as a walking stick while walking to a party.

She asked what it was for but before I did anything my friend freaked out and told me to get rid of it. :rolleyes:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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