"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A good prop?

The Cooler King

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I read somewhere about props and how to strike up convosation.

One girl that I...messed around with....has given me a T-shirt.

Not only it is quite confortable for being cotton it says "Man whor3" (without the 3) on the front.

I just noticed after so much time that it could be used as a prop.
And during that time I never wore it cause of fear of bad responses.

What do you guys think, and what do you think I could say in response?

I got one where I say, yes I am, but I'm not cheap...and by the looks of it you wont be able to afford a inch of me.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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syncmaster

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A prop is just used so she can comment on something after the inital approach... you can run into a story saying how you got it at the grotto in the playboy playhouse when your clothes mysteriously disappeared.

She's gonna know it's bull**** but its a fun story anyway :D
 

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Originally posted by syncmaster
A prop is just used so she can comment on something after the inital approach... you can run into a story saying how you got it at the grotto in the playboy playhouse when your clothes mysteriously disappeared.

She's gonna know it's bull**** but its a fun story anyway :D
haha I like that one. :crackup:
 

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F a tshirt, get a baby!!

You want a prop, borrow somebody's kid, preferably very young baby who still has to be held. Or if you have a niece or nephew you can use. Then take said baby to the place where you can think of where the most HB's congregate and just do your thing. I would be willing to bet you good money that at least one of them will open you when they see you coddling the baby, especially if you look like you're having a hard time doing something, like , whatever, setting it back down into the stroller or whatever, go out of your way to make it look like you're having a bit of a hard time but are really really loving being with the baby nonetheless. Couple with that w/being well-dressed and well-groomed the day(s) you do this, you'll be on fire. ~Dino
 

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Re: F a tshirt, get a baby!!

Originally posted by DinoCassanova
You want a prop, borrow somebody's kid, preferably very young baby who still has to be held. Or if you have a niece or nephew you can use. Then take said baby to the place where you can think of where the most HB's congregate and just do your thing. I would be willing to bet you good money that at least one of them will open you when they see you coddling the baby, especially if you look like you're having a hard time doing something, like , whatever, setting it back down into the stroller or whatever, go out of your way to make it look like you're having a bit of a hard time but are really really loving being with the baby nonetheless. Couple with that w/being well-dressed and well-groomed the day(s) you do this, you'll be on fire. ~Dino
I wont get that while in college.

I did have a good response with a stick that I picked up and used as a walking stick while walking to a party.

She asked what it was for but before I did anything my friend freaked out and told me to get rid of it. :rolleyes:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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