"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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First time posting here - need to share a positive experience!

Broke up with my wife late last year, realised I was the definition of AFC. Before her I was never good with females despite being good looking and talented. It was a long time "between drinks" for me until recently.

So I did my reading here, field practise, working out, getting back to my passions in life. So 2 real-life scenarios I have had in the last month:

1. I was in Bali 2 weeks ago, went to a reggae bar with a crew of new local friends, drinking jungle juice (a potent local brew). Music was incredible - big 9 piece band had the whole club moving. Spotted the hottest girl in the club on the dance floor: 5'10" size 8 max, probably a 9, from Hong Kong. I walk up and start busting moves and within an hour I was back at hers doing some freaky sh!t in front of the mirror at the hotel! BOOM! Dry spell over!

2. Chillin with a crew playing Tuesday night trivia at the local. Feeling really good, my mate and I played a game of pool getting ready to call it quits for the night. Then 2 honeys (I later found out they were strippers) put a coin on our table to reserve the next game. IF A GIRL EVER DOES THIS IT MEANS SHE WANTS TO BANG YOU!! Anyway after the game it didn't take long to convince them to go back to my mates where we danced until it was time for the bedroom. A Top Night.

Long story short; if a former AFC with no confidence can do this, you can too!

Peace
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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update

So I was pretty wasted and forgot to get the strippers number. Turns out she has been asking around for my number. She got it through a friend who put in a good word for her to me. Must have done something right ;)!
 
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