"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Juan Day

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First time posting here - need to share a positive experience!

Broke up with my wife late last year, realised I was the definition of AFC. Before her I was never good with females despite being good looking and talented. It was a long time "between drinks" for me until recently.

So I did my reading here, field practise, working out, getting back to my passions in life. So 2 real-life scenarios I have had in the last month:

1. I was in Bali 2 weeks ago, went to a reggae bar with a crew of new local friends, drinking jungle juice (a potent local brew). Music was incredible - big 9 piece band had the whole club moving. Spotted the hottest girl in the club on the dance floor: 5'10" size 8 max, probably a 9, from Hong Kong. I walk up and start busting moves and within an hour I was back at hers doing some freaky sh!t in front of the mirror at the hotel! BOOM! Dry spell over!

2. Chillin with a crew playing Tuesday night trivia at the local. Feeling really good, my mate and I played a game of pool getting ready to call it quits for the night. Then 2 honeys (I later found out they were strippers) put a coin on our table to reserve the next game. IF A GIRL EVER DOES THIS IT MEANS SHE WANTS TO BANG YOU!! Anyway after the game it didn't take long to convince them to go back to my mates where we danced until it was time for the bedroom. A Top Night.

Long story short; if a former AFC with no confidence can do this, you can too!

Peace
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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update

So I was pretty wasted and forgot to get the strippers number. Turns out she has been asking around for my number. She got it through a friend who put in a good word for her to me. Must have done something right ;)!
 
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