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Master Don Juan
Here's a good way to create mystery:
Let's say you enjoy tutoring children. When you are with a girl, what you do is you joke with her that you kids are really annoying. Or let's say you really like to play chess, you joke "man, how can you like that boring game? All you do is sit there!" Of course, it has to be funny and feel right, or else you're just being dishonest. But if what you say is funny, just watch the expression on the girl's face when she finds out you love kids, or play chess well or whatever it may be. At that moment, BAM, she will discover that 1.) you're not trying to impress her, 2.) that you're talented or caring or whatever, and most importantly 3.) that you're a mystery. She will start to wonder what else she doesn't know about you, and right away, as if she just took a powerful love elixir, she will begin to fall in love with you.
I never try to do this, I just do it. But I noticed that two of my friends who are girls, who I wasn't too interested in romantically, fell for me after I was joking with them in this way. I felt kinda bad that I couldn't reciprocate, but it's just who I am and what I do. Give it a try, if it feels right. Just remember, agreeing with everything a chick says is not the only way to build rapport.
Good luck,
Izza
Edit: What if a girl says, "I thought you didn't like chess?" I just say playfully "That doesn't sound like something I would say. Chess is for geniuses!" This usually gets her playfully angry, which is fun.
Let's say you enjoy tutoring children. When you are with a girl, what you do is you joke with her that you kids are really annoying. Or let's say you really like to play chess, you joke "man, how can you like that boring game? All you do is sit there!" Of course, it has to be funny and feel right, or else you're just being dishonest. But if what you say is funny, just watch the expression on the girl's face when she finds out you love kids, or play chess well or whatever it may be. At that moment, BAM, she will discover that 1.) you're not trying to impress her, 2.) that you're talented or caring or whatever, and most importantly 3.) that you're a mystery. She will start to wonder what else she doesn't know about you, and right away, as if she just took a powerful love elixir, she will begin to fall in love with you.
I never try to do this, I just do it. But I noticed that two of my friends who are girls, who I wasn't too interested in romantically, fell for me after I was joking with them in this way. I felt kinda bad that I couldn't reciprocate, but it's just who I am and what I do. Give it a try, if it feels right. Just remember, agreeing with everything a chick says is not the only way to build rapport.
Good luck,
Izza
Edit: What if a girl says, "I thought you didn't like chess?" I just say playfully "That doesn't sound like something I would say. Chess is for geniuses!" This usually gets her playfully angry, which is fun.
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