"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A good hangover cure?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dogfish

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what i do is:
-take a cold shower over the head/ neck for about 5min,
-drink water, lots of water. use those sparkling vitamin-plugins.
 

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A hot bath as soon as I wake up.

Don't be afraid to puke, it'll make you feel better.

I drink water, but only when I'm sure I'm not going to puke.

I'm also fond of orange juice.

I don't eat until mid afternoon assuming I get up at 10ish.

I often wake up early with a hangover, say 7-8ish. Stay up, lazing in bed isn't going to make you feel better.

Drinking spirits rather than lager should help you.

Drinking water every pints alright but you're pissing every five minutes.
 
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