"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A good first date plan (field tested)

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Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
What ever happened to Player Supreme? I remember him from way back in the day.
He was banned because every time he posted it started a flame war.

He may have had a few alter egos going too :) He denied it but they seemed to dissappear the same time he did. Who knows?

He gave great advice and tips but the flaming didn't help the boards much.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I recently did the mini golf for the 1st date and found it to be a great success

it is a great laugh

there is many many opportunities for cleavage viewing and more with her bent over taking 5 shots per hole

Girls suck at Mini Golf and after a few holes she will be begging for some tips and this is where the kino come in , grab around her and show her how to hold the club and aim hand to hand contact , your head next to hers , breathing on her neck

and very few girls have done mini golf on a 1st date or been o minigolf since they were a kid and remember how fun it was back then and cant wait for it

from there you can decide to go drinks walk etc and decide from there

but if it went as planned and was a whole lot fun then they will be asking you when are we getting together again and the fclose is a high chance on day2
 

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Great post.

I sub Mini-Golf for the Comedy Show as well. No waiting in long lines and girls REALLY DO suck at golf.

Be the sleezy golf instructor and phsyically show her how to swing a club from right behind her. Its fun.
 

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nice post man. good detail and explanation of what to do and the theory behind it
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ASD :)

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I really like those ideas! For me, there is a problem, though - there are no such things as comedy clubs where I live. What else would you suggest to make her laugh and have a great time? There are a lot of bars/pubs/cafes, but really - where should I go for the #1?
 
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