"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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A good first date plan (field tested)

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Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
What ever happened to Player Supreme? I remember him from way back in the day.
He was banned because every time he posted it started a flame war.

He may have had a few alter egos going too :) He denied it but they seemed to dissappear the same time he did. Who knows?

He gave great advice and tips but the flaming didn't help the boards much.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I recently did the mini golf for the 1st date and found it to be a great success

it is a great laugh

there is many many opportunities for cleavage viewing and more with her bent over taking 5 shots per hole

Girls suck at Mini Golf and after a few holes she will be begging for some tips and this is where the kino come in , grab around her and show her how to hold the club and aim hand to hand contact , your head next to hers , breathing on her neck

and very few girls have done mini golf on a 1st date or been o minigolf since they were a kid and remember how fun it was back then and cant wait for it

from there you can decide to go drinks walk etc and decide from there

but if it went as planned and was a whole lot fun then they will be asking you when are we getting together again and the fclose is a high chance on day2
 

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Great post.

I sub Mini-Golf for the Comedy Show as well. No waiting in long lines and girls REALLY DO suck at golf.

Be the sleezy golf instructor and phsyically show her how to swing a club from right behind her. Its fun.
 

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nice post man. good detail and explanation of what to do and the theory behind it
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ASD :)

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I really like those ideas! For me, there is a problem, though - there are no such things as comedy clubs where I live. What else would you suggest to make her laugh and have a great time? There are a lot of bars/pubs/cafes, but really - where should I go for the #1?
 
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