"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A good addiction

Brian20o2

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Somthing just occured to me today. And that is that not only is working out good for you but it also makes you feel great.

I discovered this after some intense bike riding, I got off my bike and was sweating and breathing hard. But what surprised me was that even though i was tired, it was like an addiction... meaning I sudenly felt like going and doing more work, in fact i almost went freestyle running though the woods. In fact i also got a sudden boost of confindence, I was like "I don't give a f**k about anything".

But the point of this post is work out. I think its called a runners high. Its just a feel good feeling. So not only do you work out you feel good and then you wanna get off ur ass more often. which is exactly what us DJs should be doing.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Agreed, very nice post. I'm happy to see a young dude like you in the game, keep it up. Staying in shape is real cool IMO. I commennd you. Get pumped up too.
 

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Runner's high is absolutely awesome. I love when I get that. I run everyday, but only rarely do I get it anymore...

Yeah, if I slack off and don't work out for a little while, I feel guilty.
 
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I belive the reason why running(working out) build up so much confident is becuase we all created a mental posibility in our mind that with a better body comes with greater posibility of getting laid. But the main reason for running is becuase you want to be in the best shape you've ever been and your at the peak of your game as well as your performance! its nice to know there isnt a slacker on here, which would push me to work out even more and or course be in a better shape than you! haha.
 

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This is also not the only thing i do to keep/get in shape. Too many people think that just doing one exersise is going to make them fit all over (ex running will trim you down and get you a healthy hart and lungs, but wont give you big biceps)

i also to pushups 4 days a week and work w/ dumbells (I do this all at home and dont go to a gym. so dont ever give any "I cant get in shape cause i dont go to a gym" crap)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Brian20o2
This is also not the only thing i do to keep/get in shape. Too many people think that just doing one exersise is going to make them fit all over (ex running will trim you down and get you a healthy hart and lungs, but wont give you big biceps)

i also to pushups 4 days a week and work w/ dumbells (I do this all at home and dont go to a gym. so dont ever give any "I cant get in shape cause i dont go to a gym" crap)
yeah man, same here. I've never actually been inside a gym. I have a bench and dumbells at home and sh*t so I just use that.
 

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Well, my lungs suck (fvcking cigarettes...) but I am pretty well built. I ususally lift at home, but gyms are VERY nice. I prefer them, but rarely can go. Too much $$$
 
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