"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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a gloomy hello...

sbgm

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I'll describe this day.

I've ignored her for 2 days.

In the morning when I saw her, I said "Hello" and she said "Hello", not a 'glad to see you'-hello but just a gloomy, silent "Hello".

Today, when I was sittin in the library, she came, knocked on the glass to the room were me and my friends sat, and she screamed "hey, whats up". I did the 'come here'-sign and she came. I asked her what she was doing. Then she went to study but came back to borrow a pen. I hadn't a pen, so she left.

At our class, she sat by a overloaded table, there were to many there. She came over to sit with the table were me and my friends was. Her friends had a mysterious look, when they saw her walking to my table.

We worked together and I joked and she laughed. I laughed about her cause she said a funny thing, she laughed to, for about 30 seconds! very funny.

She was goin home earlier than I was so when I passed her locker, I held my hand on her shoulder and said "Goodbye" and a teasing joke about what she would do when I'll go home earlier than her next year. She said that gloomy "Goodbye" and she laughed ironically.

Why is that gloomy hello and goodbye?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sbgm

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:s:s
 

michaelhctam

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sbgm,

That gloomy hello is the result of intricate neural networks, the problem in this conversation is that there is a lack of dopamine in the cerebrial cortex and therefore the decrease of electrical impulses diffusing across the synaptic juntion.

Or that you two have a symptom called Synapse Dysfunctionaria.

I will stop my BS and tell you why that gloomy hello.

IT CAN BE MANY THINGS, A BAD DAY, CONCENTRATING ON SOMETHING ELSE!! ANYTHING!

STOP OVER ANALYSING! :cuss:
 
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