"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A Girl with no options becomes hungry

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Getting off the dating site

Let me tell you what getting off the dating site has done for me.


I got off the dating site, like completely. I hide my profile, shut off my emails. No going there just to look or anything like that. Just left it.

Since then I have also not been dating. I don't have any exes that I still talk to. No male BFF's or friends. No FWB's, orbiters, no males to call on to help me move or even go to the movies with. No males whatsoever in my life. I point this out because I find that most women who say they are taking a break from dating still have men in their life.

At first it was fine. I hang out and talk to my girlfriends a lot and of course we talk about men, and I just felt like I was getting a break from the hassles of everything that comes with dating and I was happy to put it on the shelf.

It's been a year since my last relationship and a year since I've had sex even.

Now that I haven't talked to or had any males in my life for several months now, what I am noticing is the effect it's having on me. It's been a unexpected to say the least. What it's doing is making me feel starved. And making me super horny. Suddenly those guys who I might not have given the time of day a year ago, are starting to look like interesting prospects to make out with or possibly have sex with. And for no reason other than I'm love and sex starved. My imagination is going wild with men I would have never had thoughts about before.

Now I know what you're going to say: "Hey Pops, go out and get yourself some man beef today!". Well not so fast. I am intrigued by this unexpected effect and wonder what the possibilities are. I think I will hold off and suffer through this a few more months until I move to my new city in June, and then I'm going to unleash myself on the new menz. I think it'll make me appreciate them more and I'll have fun.

So my recommendation to anyone out there who is finding themselves being frustrated and/or picky: Get off the dating site completely and starve yourself of the opposite gender for a long while. You will begin to appreciate them more!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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We all get starved without options but it's only women who realize this as some ultra significant learning moment whereas it's just a natural thing guys know. Women have a-lot of these "WOW REALLY?!" moments due to how easy their lives have become.
 

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Never listen to what a woman says. I will believe it when she starts banging the actual not so good looking dudes instead of just talking. When I go through a dry spell a hb5 starts to look bangable but when it comes time to setting it up and doing the deed I never follow through. Sounds like a big sloot to me who is ready to bang 100 alphas in 100 days in the new city.
 

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Getting off the dating site

Let me tell you what getting off the dating site has done for me.


I got off the dating site, like completely. I hide my profile, shut off my emails. No going there just to look or anything like that. Just left it.

Since then I have also not been dating. I don't have any exes that I still talk to. No male BFF's or friends. No FWB's, orbiters, no males to call on to help me move or even go to the movies with. No males whatsoever in my life. I point this out because I find that most women who say they are taking a break from dating still have men in their life.

At first it was fine. I hang out and talk to my girlfriends a lot and of course we talk about men, and I just felt like I was getting a break from the hassles of everything that comes with dating and I was happy to put it on the shelf.

It's been a year since my last relationship and a year since I've had sex even.

Now that I haven't talked to or had any males in my life for several months now, what I am noticing is the effect it's having on me. It's been a unexpected to say the least. What it's doing is making me feel starved. And making me super horny. Suddenly those guys who I might not have given the time of day a year ago, are starting to look like interesting prospects to make out with or possibly have sex with. And for no reason other than I'm love and sex starved. My imagination is going wild with men I would have never had thoughts about before.

Now I know what you're going to say: "Hey Pops, go out and get yourself some man beef today!". Well not so fast. I am intrigued by this unexpected effect and wonder what the possibilities are. I think I will hold off and suffer through this a few more months until I move to my new city in June, and then I'm going to unleash myself on the new menz. I think it'll make me appreciate them more and I'll have fun.

So my recommendation to anyone out there who is finding themselves being frustrated and/or picky: Get off the dating site completely and starve yourself of the opposite gender for a long while. You will begin to appreciate them more!
This is a gay dude writing this by the way...

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