"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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a girl who likes you but hides it around other men?

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ok i tried my best to make the title but my question is this, in the past i have been with 4 girls who really liked me, girls who i have kissed but never had sex with just because i had no experienced at all. now with each girl whom i had kissed and done a fairly of ****. now when i was around other people, she wouldn't let me to my arms around her, or hold her, or my hand around her waist or shoulder or hold hands or kiss her etc etc. and this happened every time their was a better looking guy 10x more than me. but when we were alone then i was freely to do anything i wanted with her.

so my question is why did the gurls act this way?

now from what i have been reading about pua - if i was to take a guess i would say, 1 thing i learned is that girls are always single as they are always out to seek a better man than what they already have. and or 2. they dont want to be portrayed as sluts? and i cant think of anything else.

whats your opinion?

and the reason i asked is because i have been reading pua for a year now and soon or later i will end up sweeping a girl and giving her a sexual experience of her life from all the sex tips that girls crave for that i have been learning from pua and girl articles themselves. so if she was to act like this during a serious relationship then this can raise a red flag that hints me something is wrong
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If she really likes you why would she hide it around others? Especially guys? Sounds disrespectful to me.
 
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Yeah, I think your definition of "like" isn't realistic.

I kissed plenty of girls and had it go nowhere. It doesn't mean that they like me. They just liked me enough to make out with me for the attention.

You can go out to a club on any weekend and find girls who will make out with you and not f**k you.

So, correct me if I'm wrong, but when I hear your story, I get the image of a guy who made out with a girl. And he thought that making out means more than it really did. So, he tried holding the girl, holding her hand, and doing "boyfriend" type stuff....and the girl was thinking "Christ. We're only making out. Why is this guy all over me?"
 
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Iceberg said:
Yeah, I think your definition of "like" isn't realistic.

I kissed plenty of girls and had it go nowhere. It doesn't mean that they like me. They just liked me enough to make out with me for the attention.

You can go out to a club on any weekend and find girls who will make out with you and not f**k you.

So, correct me if I'm wrong, but when I hear your story, I get the image of a guy who made out with a girl. And he thought that making out means more than it really did. So, he tried holding the girl, holding her hand, and doing "boyfriend" type stuff....and the girl was thinking "Christ. We're only making out. Why is this guy all over me?"
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ok your on a roll and on point so let me push it a bit farther. now lets say that shes been your girlfriend for 5 months and when you two are around other people/ and or a men who looks better than you and when you put your arm around her shoulder or waist to show ownership or w/e she has her hands on yours, slowly trying to remove it.

what do you think of this? or what does this mean
 
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ok your on a roll and on point so let me push it a bit farther. now lets say that shes been your girlfriend for 5 months and when you two are around other people/ and or a men who looks better than you and when you put your arm around her shoulder or waist to show ownership or w/e she has her hands on yours, slowly trying to remove it.

what do you think of this? or what does this mean
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It could mean a number of things.

1. She might not feel comfortable showing intimcy in public.
2. She's frigid.
3. She just isn't into you all that much.

You need to ask her, we can't really help you.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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She's not that into you probably, who knows though.
 
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