I met this girl at a party, we had a good convo the entire night exchanged emails and phone numbers, blah blah...Anyways shes saying how she loves to F*** and all this, now keep in mind I barely know her and shes telling me this, and she says that it wont even take 3 dates with her. (now thats either really good or really bad...) I mean Im not sure if I want a girl THAT easy. Who knows her past...Am I wrong for making an assumption like that.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
a girl who F**** on the first date?
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Badmannaz
Master Don Juan
yeah she's a little sl*t **** her and keep movin she's not lookin for no relationships only some relations...lmao:flowers: :kick:
Well women like sex too. It seems men are here because they want sex from women but when they give it to them they judge her or don't want it.mtlwlu said:I met this girl at a party, we had a good convo the entire night exchanged emails and phone numbers, blah blah...Anyways shes saying how she loves to F*** and all this, now keep in mind I barely know her and shes telling me this, and she says that it wont even take 3 dates with her. (now thats either really good or really bad...) I mean Im not sure if I want a girl THAT easy. Who knows her past...Am I wrong for making an assumption like that.
Captain Harlock
Senior Don Juan
yeah it's kind of hypocritical
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Igetit!
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THANK YOU,DBOTI've always been wary of girls who just throw sex out there like it's no big deal to complete strangers. To me,a woman is like a coke machine. You have to put something of value in before you get something out. That's just the way it works. You put your money in,push the button,then the coke comes out. However,if you're standing near the machine,then out of the blue out comes a soda,it may seem good,but something's wrong.dbot said:Judge a girl by her character, not by her eagerness to have sex.
Women don't say to guys they've just met things like "it won't take even three dates to **** me,and "oh,how I love to f***. That ain't normal. If it was,the the OP wouldn't have made this thread. I never,ever use surface logic when it comes to women. I guarantee you it won't be as simple as-girl says "I love to F**k",guy says ok,then they go have sex.
This girl may be telling the truth about how much she loves sex,but NO woman would just go around announcing it out loud to random guys.
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I don't think Dbot meant that, he was trying to say that it does not matter if they are eager to ****, but how they are as a person. Just because she was horny does not mean she couldn't be LTR material, her character determines that. Although too easy can be a turn off sometimes (If you like a challenge).Igetit! said:THANK YOU,DBOTI've always been wary of girls who just throw sex out there like it's no big deal to complete strangers. To me,a woman is like a coke machine. You have to put something of value in before you get something out. That's just the way it works. You put your money in,push the button,then the coke comes out. However,if you're standing near the machine,then out of the blue out comes a soda,it may seem good,but something's wrong.
Women don't just say to guys they met things like "it won't take even three dates to **** me,and "oh,how I love to f***. That ain't normal. If it was,the the OP wouldn't have made this thread. I never,ever use surface logic when it comes to women. I guarantee you it won't be as simple as-girl says "I love to F**k",guy says ok,then they go have sex.
This girl may be telling the truth about how much she loves sex,but NO woman would just go around announcing it out loud to random guys.
great way to look at it. we wouldn't mind screwing them on the first date, but afterwards would condemn them for giving it up?!dbot said:Judge a girl by her character, not by her eagerness to have sex.
talk about hypocrisy.
cordoncordon
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Dude what the hell???!!! I love girls that screw on the first date. LOVE. Nothing is better than getting some new pvssy to dive into. In fact when i'm single if I DONT have sex on the first date I wonder what went wrong lol. Odds are you arent gonna marry these girls, so quit worrying and getting emotional like a girl and go out and have fun.
Ollie
Don Juan
Girls not wanting sex on the first date is usually a deal breaker for me...two date limit. I'm not in the market for anything long term though lol just having fun
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Captain Harlock
Senior Don Juan
why are you comparing women to vending machines?Igetit! said:THANK YOU,DBOTI've always been wary of girls who just throw sex out there like it's no big deal to complete strangers. To me,a woman is like a coke machine. You have to put something of value in before you get something out. That's just the way it works. You put your money in,push the button,then the coke comes out. However,if you're standing near the machine,then out of the blue out comes a soda,it may seem good,but something's wrong.
eaglez1177
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Wow that chick is a straight up slvt no matter how you put it...just dont get a fvcking herpes from her
That's not what I meant at all. From my experience, when women say something like that to you on a date it's usually because they like you and are nervous/insecure and are trying to tell you what they think you want to hear. I'm not saying that's the case here, but you need to read between the lines. Regardless, whether or not a woman holds out on sex has nothing to do with who she is, or the quality of her character.Igetit! said:THANK YOU,DBOTI've always been wary of girls who just throw sex out there like it's no big deal to complete strangers.
WC2
Master Don Juan
In my experience a woman who talks like this usually DOESN'T put out. She's usually just seeking attention.
It's more often the quiet women who blend in who tend to put out more often.
Whether a woman puts out has nothing to do with her character, but who she puts out to shows a lot about her character.
It's more often the quiet women who blend in who tend to put out more often.
Whether a woman puts out has nothing to do with her character, but who she puts out to shows a lot about her character.
Just do not, I repeat do not go down on her...
When a girl sleeps with me on the first date I mentally say to myself I am the Fin Man, not she must be a Hoe. It might be my ego, or extrmely postive self image but I blame it on me. Wear a COndom and enjoy yourself.
When a girl sleeps with me on the first date I mentally say to myself I am the Fin Man, not she must be a Hoe. It might be my ego, or extrmely postive self image but I blame it on me. Wear a COndom and enjoy yourself.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Poetry right there.WC2 said:In my experience a woman who talks like this usually DOESN'T put out. She's usually just seeking attention.
It's more often the quiet women who blend in who tend to put out more often.
Whether a woman puts out has nothing to do with her character, but who she puts out to shows a lot about her character.
Unfortunately, we rarely see the other men she puts out to, so in the end we're ultimately judging her character based on what we think of ourselves.WC2 said:Whether a woman puts out has nothing to do with her character, but who she puts out to shows a lot about her character.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
She is a HOR!
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
mtlwlu, Badmannaz, eaglez1177 and I.A.F.Y.B.
You guys are THE reason why girls are afraid of being called sluts and whores What is wrong with girls enjoying sex?
Every guy here is trying to have sex on the first date. When you get it to happen you think less of her? :kick:
You guys are THE reason why girls are afraid of being called sluts and whores What is wrong with girls enjoying sex?
Every guy here is trying to have sex on the first date. When you get it to happen you think less of her? :kick:
actually Im not trying to have sex on the first date, call me old school, but Id rather just kiss close then F close on a first date, theres something I dislike about girls being "too" easy. I like a little more of a chase, hence why I came to this board in the first place.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.