"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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a girl that has a boyfriend

gherald

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well, there is this woman who i meet this november..

and now were really close...and i really like this girl eventhough she's just a 7/10 and the problem is she has a boyfriend...

well,i know that theres just so many girls out there but she's showing signs that she likes me too...she's asking my acquaintances about my past relationship and asking me stuff about relationship...she initiates kino and all...
and i really think she likes me...

and as i said shes been on this reltaionship about three years and this guy is her first bf...

im kinda confused...shud i tell her how i feel or shud i remain being her friend...

BTW,this girl has only a few friends on our university..
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Pulsar

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meh, why waste your time with a chick with a bf?

Why not find one that is single?

If she leaves he bf, then does that not mean that she is just one of those hoes who will forever be on the look out for a bf-upgrade?
 

musclyjerk

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She's a selfish, immature head case who'se confused or is simply using you, forget her.

What's this about being her friend? Egh.

Do the male species a favour and tell her to do one. Either she dumps her boyfriend while she's feigning interest in you, or she stops it.

Gah.. just tell her you don't want to see her anymore and to go back to her boyfriend. Tell her you're tired of her!

Do whatever you want! God I'm cranky, I need to eat.

The Muscly Jerk
 
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