"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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a girl that has a boyfriend

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gherald

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well, there is this woman who i meet this november..

and now were really close...and i really like this girl eventhough she's just a 7/10 and the problem is she has a boyfriend...

well,i know that theres just so many girls out there but she's showing signs that she likes me too...she's asking my acquaintances about my past relationship and asking me stuff about relationship...she initiates kino and all...
and i really think she likes me...

and as i said shes been on this reltaionship about three years and this guy is her first bf...

im kinda confused...shud i tell her how i feel or shud i remain being her friend...

BTW,this girl has only a few friends on our university..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Pulsar

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meh, why waste your time with a chick with a bf?

Why not find one that is single?

If she leaves he bf, then does that not mean that she is just one of those hoes who will forever be on the look out for a bf-upgrade?
 
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musclyjerk

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She's a selfish, immature head case who'se confused or is simply using you, forget her.

What's this about being her friend? Egh.

Do the male species a favour and tell her to do one. Either she dumps her boyfriend while she's feigning interest in you, or she stops it.

Gah.. just tell her you don't want to see her anymore and to go back to her boyfriend. Tell her you're tired of her!

Do whatever you want! God I'm cranky, I need to eat.

The Muscly Jerk
 
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