"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A girl says "Do I know you?", what should you say?

The_411

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just go for something off the wall that is funny. Humor works unless you have a terrible delivery or you are horribly unfunny.

If a girl asks me that I might say something like, " Yes I've been on the back of a milk carton and you've finally found me" or something like, " I don't know ... what does this (sic) Yew look like?, or even something like, " You may have seen me in such films as .... (Using Phil Hartman voice)

Basically anything that isn't a standard response that shows charm, wit and humor is great way to answer.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Deicide

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The_411 said:
just go for something off the wall that is funny. Humor works unless you have a terrible delivery or you are horribly unfunny.

If a girl asks me that I might say something like, " Yes I've been on the back of a milk carton and you've finally found me" or something like, " I don't know ... what does this (sic) Yew look like?, or even something like, " You may have seen me in such films as .... (Using Phil Hartman voice)

Basically anything that isn't a standard response that shows charm, wit and humor is great way to answer.
I love the Phil Hartman one.:yes:
 

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the line i like to use is...."no, i get that a lot. I've been on tv....and i know what you're thinking...no i was not on COPS!!!" gets a laugh everytime.
 
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