A Girl Rejects Me On Myspace

[dadmonson]

Delete.............

Some of you all are giving this girl WAAAY too much credit. I had to delete this.

 

[Warrior74]

Her myspace email;
Obviously a rejection

Me emailing back;





I know the best response to a rejection is no response but I was bored. Do you think I said the right things though? What could I have done better?

you know the right thing to do and you refuse to do it. This is why you fail.

your fragile little ego has to get in a parting shot. Be honest man. You gotta be honest with yourself first and formost. YOu know what you could have done better, you could have left it alone and moved on. The fact that you are still thinking about it enough to post it on sosauve shows that it bruised your ego. I got friends like you, yall know what to do but make all sorts of EXCUSES to do it.

Stop making excuses for your bad behavior and just correct it. "I was bored" bytch please! You wasn't bored...you were butthurt. If you were bored you coulda been messaging 20 more girls on myspace, but you are fixated on this one. YOu could have deleted her message and moved on...but you didn't.

Just like women, you judge a man by his actions and not by his words. And your words and actions don't match up playboy. Look inside and fix what made you even come to this particularly sad episode. Good luck.

 

[Warrior74]

Why's it wrong Warrior? He sent a friend request and she freaked out! Sure she might not screw him but I would've said the same!

LOL. which is why you are where you are. It's not a matter of right or wrong. its a matter of whats important. Myspace is a numbers game. if someone is freaking out over a friend request...then fock em! move on. their loss. I'm not gonna have a debate or conversation about it. I'm gonna keep looking for women who will choose me. I don't want to debate my way into getting on her friend list..who the fock is she? She ain't shyt! That's too much time and effort that could be spent doing something else than worrying about someone who is tripping over some little crap like that.

What would an Alpha Male do? I think he would keep hunting. That's like walking up to a girl and saying hi, and she responds with "I have a boyfriend". Something is wrong with her. normal people don't act like that. Which means I'm not about to waste my time with someone who is not normal to try to get them to act normal. You dig?

 

[dadmonson]

Yo a mod close this thread before I get freakin roasted.

 

[guywhoneedshelp]

you know the right thing to do and you refuse to do it. This is why you fail.

your fragile little ego has to get in a parting shot. Be honest man. You gotta be honest with yourself first and formost. YOu know what you could have done better, you could have left it alone and moved on. The fact that you are still thinking about it enough to post it on sosauve shows that it bruised your ego. I got friends like you, yall know what to do but make all sorts of EXCUSES to do it.

Stop making excuses for your bad behavior and just correct it. "I was bored" bytch please! You wasn't bored...you were butthurt. If you were bored you coulda been messaging 20 more girls on myspace, but you are fixated on this one. YOu could have deleted her message and moved on...but you didn't.

Just like women, you judge a man by his actions and not by his words. And your words and actions don't match up playboy. Look inside and fix what made you even come to this particularly sad episode. Good luck.

Dude I think you are overreacting. I doubt he had oneitis over a girl that he sent a friend request too. His ****y/funny attitude towards her reaction was the way to go in my opinion. I would of said something along the lines of "Yea well the reason I sent you a friend request is because I want to know if I can come to the wedding."

 

[Warrior74]

This from a guy who calls himself guywhoneedshelp. I'm giving you some help. The point is to look at his own mentality. Nobody said anything about oneitis. I don't know how you pulled that out your ass. You guys take real talk as overracting. Instead of looking at the entire situation critically and asking questions critically.. you questions such as....

if you know what to do, why aren't you doing it? If you know the best thing to do is to move on, why are you still trying?

if its some random girl, why are you posting about it?

If it doesn't matter then why bring it up? what, do u just want attention?

why are you making excuses for what you are doing? what does that say about the type of man you are?

these are critical questions, that when you ask them on this forum people tell you to calm down or you are overreacting. But if a person wants help..they should be asking these critical questions...this isn't about one myspace post, this is about your mindset and worldview. AFCs and alot of my loser friends who aren't good with women do this whole "experiment" type crap as a way of being passive agressive, or trying to dissaciate themselves from their actions that they know are wrong but continue to do anyway. when you call them out on their BS they go with ..oh i was bored, or oh I didn't care anyway. And you know they really did. because why else would they be prattling on about it?



to the OP don't run now. Don't ask for it to be locked. use this opportunity to look at why you did the things you did and why you even bothered to post this.

this is the essence of becoming a dj. understanding yourself and your motivations for real. not hiding behind excuses.

 

[guywhoneedshelp]

This from a guy who calls himself guywhoneedshelp. I'm giving you some help. The point is to look at his own mentality. Nobody said anything about oneitis. I don't know how you pulled that out your ass. You guys take real talk as overracting. Instead of looking at the entire situation critically and asking questions critically.. you questions such as....

if you know what to do, why aren't you doing it? If you know the best thing to do is to move on, why are you still trying?

if its some random girl, why are you posting about it?

If it doesn't matter then why bring it up? what, do u just want attention?

why are you making excuses for what you are doing? what does that say about the type of man you are?

these are critical questions, that when you ask them on this forum people tell you to calm down or you are overreacting. But if a person wants help..they should be asking these critical questions...this isn't about one myspace post, this is about your mindset and worldview. AFCs and alot of my loser friends who aren't good with women do this whole "experiment" type crap as a way of being passive agressive, or trying to dissaciate themselves from their actions that they know are wrong but continue to do anyway. when you call them out on their BS they go with ..oh i was bored, or oh I didn't care anyway. And you know they really did. because why else would they be prattling on about it?



to the OP don't run now. Don't ask for it to be locked. use this opportunity to look at why you did the things you did and why you even bothered to post this.

this is the essence of becoming a dj. understanding yourself and your motivations for real. not hiding behind excuses.

You ever think maybe he just doesn't care?

Seriously, maybe he feels like writing something. Why do I write field reports? Because I have oneitis over every single phone number I get? No...in fact I don't write about every single encounter I have with women...I write for fun, to pass time, and I mess with girls on MySpace for the same reason. Plus I'm getting paid most of the time, because I come on this site while I'm at work.

I think the original poster was merely laughing at this girls response.

 

[#41]

I know the best response to a rejection is no response but I was bored. Do you think I said the right things though? What could I have done better?

Not wasting your time with a response.

Myspace, Facebook, Craigslist -- whatever, they're all a numbers game. You'll run into 10, 20, 30 women like this for every one that is receptive to the game you're running. When you do meet one like this, the best thing to do is just move on.

 

[Dragoo]

Not wasting your time with a response.

Myspace, Facebook, Craigslist -- whatever, they're all a numbers game. You'll run into 10, 20, 30 women like this for every one that is receptive to the game you're running. When you do meet one like this, the best thing to do is just move on.

There you have it. I find it kind of intriguing that she responded to you instead of just blocking you but just leave it be dadmonson. #41 said it all.

 

[DJVladdy]

Her myspace email;
Obviously a rejection

Me emailing back;





I know the best response to a rejection is no response but I was bored. Do you think I said the right things though? What could I have done better?

Your little "reply" was PATHETIC and deep down you KNOW it! That's why your ego needs to be re-affirmed, and you ask if you "did the right thing"

 

[PRMoon]

Who cares? Like you can't find another tart on myspace. Gaming girls in real time takes effort. Gaming girls on myspace takes free time.

 

[rapidfire]

sounds like highschool **** "I have someone so I can't talk to you"

 

[Evzone]

It's MySpace.

Get out into the real world.

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

You know what I find funny... and you can easily tell who the online "geeks" are and who aren't?

The online "geek" responds to people by quoting and breaking down what the other people/person say, then responds, with some bitter or "sarcastic" tone.

The people who aren't "geeks", just respond like they would in a real life situation.

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First, don't respond to regular non-online type of people with those quotations like that... they'll think you're bitter and/or have too much time to analyze what they just said.

Second, you try too hard, and you're easy to see through.

 

[Jaggs]

That chicks opinion of you is even more lowered now.
stupid stupid reply. You come across as bitter and having to get the last word in on something that doesn't even matter.

the end.

 

[dadmonson]

That chicks opinion of you is even more lowered now.

So what...

The End.

 

[dadmonson]

You know what I find funny... and you can easily tell who the online "geeks" are and who aren't?

The online "geek" responds to people by quoting and breaking down what the other people/person say, then responds, with some bitter or "sarcastic" tone.

The people who aren't "geeks", just respond like they would in a real life situation.

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First, don't respond to regular non-online type of people with those quotations like that... they'll think you're bitter and/or have too much time to analyze what they just said.

Second, you try too hard, and you're easy to see through.

So says the guy with a 1000+ posts and counting. Whatever man.

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

So says the guy with a 1000+ posts and counting. Whatever man.

So says the guy that's been here since 2004. Who has no game. Who cannot interact over the internet to a female. Where you have plenty of time to think of a decent reply. Who has no game, is too eager, is too desperate to even come up with a decent reply.

1000 posts mean nothing since I've been here since 2005.

You've been here since 2004, have a small amount of posts, but still fail at interacting with females... even on the internet.

Point of bringing up my post count?

 

[kazz]

So says the guy with a 1000+ posts and counting. Whatever man.

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[More Cowbell Please]

Grow up little bytch