"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A girl mooned me last weekend

joecollapoppa

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Ok me and my friends were walkin around blah street (not saying real street names) anyways across the street, I saw 2 girls coming out of a bar. they were drunk as hell. I went up to one of them and started a conversation hoping to get laid cuz they were drunk as hell LOL :D What happened totally shocked me. One of them "possibly the drunkest one" mooned me in the streets and said you will never get none of this. I don't know if that was a good thing or a bad thing. she did have a nice booty. She winked at me and left with her friend. I just stood there with my mouth open like what the hell? My friends were like yo! ha ha ha.
What yall make of that?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You should have said, "Whoa! Who said I even WANTED any of that? You're going WAY too fast for me! What happened to the old days when people became friends first?"
 

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I've been looking for more and more reasons to start carrying around a digital camera. :D

Holler at her friend.
 

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I'd say it's a bad thing... "A drunk man (or woman's) words are a sober one's thoughts". Then again, you got to see some booty - that and the fact that since you're living in NYC it's not exactly as if there are a limited number of girls to hook up with...
 

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Actually it's an IOI.

The fact was, she was the one who THOUGHT about having sex with you and DID something about it. You simply THOUGHT about it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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