"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A girl is suddenly avoiding me for no reason.

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Okay....

What have you learned Raymond?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Raymond said:
Nope, she mentioned my name in her text, but whatever, I next'd her.
When did you next her?

Not in this thread you didn't.
 

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ImaNerd said:
I'd just ask her
That's true! If someone has a problem with your completely normal behavior, just ask about it :woo: ; even if the reason is BS, at least you'll have tried. One girl tried acting uninterested and she lied to me saying that she simply doesn't like school. You may be lied to, is the point :nono: .
 

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mynameisntNigel said:
That's true! If someone has a problem with your completely normal behavior, just ask about it :woo: ; even if the reason is BS, at least you'll have tried. One girl tried acting uninterested and she lied to me saying that she simply doesn't like school. You may be lied to, is the point :nono: .

Asking a woman about a problem is the worst thing you can do.
(I've learned this the hard way). You look like a little ***** and let her know that you are more interested in her than she is in you. In essence, she feels she is of higher value than you and will seek our a higher value male.

Also, even if the woman was to give you what she thought was the honest answer it would be of no help to you at all. As someone has already said they act on 99% emotion. There is no logic or rational thought at all. A woman cannot tell you what she wants, because she doesn't even know.

It's obvious she's no longer interested. Don't text her again for at least a month or two and if she texts you in the meantime I would either not answer or appear uninterested in her.

www.therationalmale.com
 

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TitanSS said:

Asking a woman about a problem is the worst thing you can do.
(I've learned this the hard way). You look like a little ***** and let her know that you are more interested in her than she is in you. In essence, she feels she is of higher value than you and will seek our a higher value male.

Also, even if the woman was to give you what she thought was the honest answer it would be of no help to you at all. As someone has already said they act on 99% emotion. There is no logic or rational thought at all. A woman cannot tell you what she wants, because she doesn't even know.

It's obvious she's no longer interested. Don't text her again for at least a month or two and if she texts you in the meantime I would either not answer or appear uninterested in her.

www.therationalmale.com
Good advices, thanks mate.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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