Maximus Rex
Banned
Okay....
What have you learned Raymond?
What have you learned Raymond?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
A girl is suddenly avoiding me for no reason.
- Thread starter Raymond
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
mynameisntNigel
Don Juan
That's true! If someone has a problem with your completely normal behavior, just ask about it :woo: ; even if the reason is BS, at least you'll have tried. One girl tried acting uninterested and she lied to me saying that she simply doesn't like school. You may be lied to, is the point :nono: .ImaNerd said:
mynameisntNigel said:
Asking a woman about a problem is the worst thing you can do. (I've learned this the hard way). You look like a little ***** and let her know that you are more interested in her than she is in you. In essence, she feels she is of higher value than you and will seek our a higher value male.
Also, even if the woman was to give you what she thought was the honest answer it would be of no help to you at all. As someone has already said they act on 99% emotion. There is no logic or rational thought at all. A woman cannot tell you what she wants, because she doesn't even know.
It's obvious she's no longer interested. Don't text her again for at least a month or two and if she texts you in the meantime I would either not answer or appear uninterested in her.
www.therationalmale.com
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.