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A girl is about to flake on me

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MANG

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She is about to call me and cancel the plans for tonight. What are some good responses to make me sound indifferent?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Call her first and cancel on her. And figure out why shes cancelling on you in the first place and address that too.

If she beats you to it, tell her its ridiculous of her to cancel the night of, and that you dont take that ****. Something along those lines
 
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The reason she is flaking on me is because I didn't build enough rapport with her. It also wasnt set in stone, just a "hey come hang out with me and my friends."
I just need a quick witty remark.
I aint canceling on her. I'm still going out
 
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always act like it's no big deal. if you seem disappointed she'll fvkin own you. you can playfully say "it's your loss" while laughing.
 
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Ring - ring
Mang - "Oh hey, I was just going to call you. Plans changed, meeting people up downtown (or wherever is cracking) here is the address, look sexy otherwise you can't come."

"Sorry, I can't make it out tonight, because ......"

" Well have fun doing whatever you find more pressing."

*click*

-Delete number-
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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