Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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A girl is about to flake on me

MANG

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She is about to call me and cancel the plans for tonight. What are some good responses to make me sound indifferent?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DjMe

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Call her first and cancel on her. And figure out why shes cancelling on you in the first place and address that too.

If she beats you to it, tell her its ridiculous of her to cancel the night of, and that you dont take that ****. Something along those lines
 

MANG

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The reason she is flaking on me is because I didn't build enough rapport with her. It also wasnt set in stone, just a "hey come hang out with me and my friends."
I just need a quick witty remark.
I aint canceling on her. I'm still going out
 

connor32

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always act like it's no big deal. if you seem disappointed she'll fvkin own you. you can playfully say "it's your loss" while laughing.
 

Rhoto

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Ring - ring
Mang - "Oh hey, I was just going to call you. Plans changed, meeting people up downtown (or wherever is cracking) here is the address, look sexy otherwise you can't come."

"Sorry, I can't make it out tonight, because ......"

" Well have fun doing whatever you find more pressing."

*click*

-Delete number-
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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