"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A girl in my class

karli

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Hey guys!

There's this girl in my class whom I've been talking with a lot recently, she told me that she'd call me anytime, we've been texting in class etc.
She used to be in a relationship when we started talking. For 2.5 years in fact but now she broke up with him a couple of days ago. She was sad but seems to be over it now. We've got a lot in common etc and she seems to be into me.

We didn't talk much today at school and after school totally out of blue she asks me on Facebook why I'm talking to her all the time. What the **** is that? I don't understand it.

(when we started talking at first my goal was to just become good friends with her but it has kinda escalated because of her, she even kissed me at a party when I was actually talking to someone else)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Skyline

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I feel like im the only one in this section who recognizes a sh*t test. She knows you didnt talk to her all day and shes just messing with you. If you defended yourself or took her seriously then you failed. Always reply with indifference or something funny when it comes to sh*t tests.


I would proceed with her but be aware of rebound/AW, meaning short term relationship first if anything beyond an FB.
 

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Frayzer said:
I feel like im the only one in this section who recognizes a sh*t test.
Dude you have no need to be so arrogant. I just don't put up with that sort of **** and it works out perfectly fine for me
 

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frayzer got it basically, although I didn't recognize it as a s*** test, I did recognize it as the kind of thing that gets a joke response.
 
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